Three weeks of confusion

We finally seemed to have gotten a proper and accurate diagnosis of what was ailing our youngest. After weeks of random “illness” we became quite concerned. When a child throws up you almost instantly think of an infection, usually viral. That’s how it all started but it seemed suspicious even then.

He appeared to have a fever one evening, the became ill. He slept the night with no incident, which was odd. He awoke, had a bottle and became ill again. Afterwards he proceeded to run around the house like a madman. This child wasn’t “sick” so off to daycare he went.

The week went by without incident, until Friday.

The daycare calls around late morning and he is vomiting. By the time I got to him he’d done it again and while picking him up he became ill yet again. This went on for hours. I believe I counted at least 10 times that he got sick to his stomach. He looked bad, lethargic and just laid on the bed, not moving, except to get sick.

If you’re a parent and you’ve experienced the feeling of helplessness when your child is ill, it’s an experience like none other. We hurt when they hurt.

I was angry at whatever was causing this. All I could do was shake my fist in the air and curse. It didn’t help my son though. I finally took him into the pediatrician late that afternoon. I had a towel with me at all times but amazingly enough he did not become ill in our visit.

They poked and prodded him but were dumbfounded, as was I. They said he had slight fever but the whole time he felt somewhat cool to the touch. He didn’t feel feverish though he sort of acted it. Usually a sign of viral infection in children are the “fun” diapers. His only symptoms were vomiting and lethargy with sporadic (days apart) bad diapers. That should have keyed us in but I’ll get to that. I left with the loose diagnosis of it being a virus but no one was sure. That wasn’t a good feeling.

Yes, I know, talking about vomit and poo aren’t exactly glamorous but it’s been a long ordeal and I am going to blog about it!

He seemed to recover from that Friday ordeal and we went nearly another week without incident. Then early this past Saturday it all started up again. Uncontrollable vomiting, lethargy, etc. He exhibited the same exact symptoms as the previous Friday. This was no virus but what was it?

We took him in to the doc again and they agreed, finally. Though instead of ordering some tests to confirm anything we still felt left in the dark. Dammit I want some tests run! The whole weekend he acted weird.

Sunday afternoon he became ill again… (Happy Mother’s Day!)

Then Monday evening he became ill, yet again….

Finally Tuesday morning he was ill and we decided it was time for a second opinion. We called up our old pediatrician that the oldest went to (he is now 6, the youngest is nearly 2, btw). They said to bring him in, no question about it, something wasn’t right. I was at work and anxiously awaited an answer.

They ran a few tests which came back with nothing unusual. Then they ordered the X-Ray and at last, we may have found the answer. Our kid was constipated.

Whoa, whoa… say what? I got the call from my wife and I was actually shocked. How could it be so simple? Then the symptoms all made sense. The doctor listened to everything and indeed everything pointed to that.

Why the throwing up? There was no room in him! It wasn’t a complete blockage which explained why it seemed to come and go but it was enough to be prolonged. More was going in than coming out, that’s the bottom line. So now we have him on a few things to help move things along and we’re going to watch his diet more closely.

He seems to have improved over the past two days though we’re still watching him. I’m just glad the initial diagnosis was something simple.

We now end our poo broadcast.